When I retired after 36 years of public service, I believed I was finally entering the season of life where I could pursue the dream I had carried for more than two decades. Life had other plans. Shortly into retirement I received a breast cancer diagnosis, and as I worked through treatment and recovery, another diagnosis followed. I chose to walk much of that journey privately — I’m the person you call when you need someone, not the other way around.
As my strength returned, I found myself doing something that had always brought me joy: cooking and giving back alongside people who had become like family. In 2025 I helped build a BBQ team and coordinated a VIP Tent Event for Rodeo Austin BBQ. Together we were honored to earn 4th Place Top Fundraiser and several other awards — a reminder of what can happen when people rally around a shared purpose.
Midway through the 2026 season, life interrupted again. Deke — who had come out of retirement into a third law enforcement career with the Austin ISD Police Department — was involved in another on-duty motorcycle accident. It was nowhere near as severe as 2002, but it brought back every memory of that time and the promise I had made to myself.
As we worked through yet another recovery, I realized how many people around us didn’t have the advantages we were fortunate enough to have. Veterans, first responders and hardworking families quietly carry burdens they rarely talk about. They are often the very people who spent their lives answering someone else’s call for help, yet find it difficult to ask for help themselves.
I stopped waiting for the perfect time. I founded the Texas Honky-Tonk Crowd Foundation to build something that would continue serving Texas long after I’m gone.
And I certainly didn’t build it on my own. My husband, Deke, has stood beside me through every high and every low. Friends, family and volunteers stepped forward with their time and talents, often before there was anything more than an idea and a lot of determination. A dream may begin with one person, but it only becomes a Foundation because others choose to build alongside them.